Monday, June 22, 2009

SAVE MARRIAGE FROM DIVORCE. ANTI-DIVORCE BOOKS



Hi this is Karen, I want to quickly introduce myself before I begin to share my thoughts about different anti-divorce books, including a new anti-divorce book I believe to offer very useful information that can help many married couples rejuvenate their relationship.

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Ok... I've been a relationship counselor since 1994 and have been helping couples work out their problems for 15 years now. Even though I have many clients that seek my advice on a regular basis, me and my husband's relationship by far gets most of my attention and advice. Just because I am a relationship counselor doesn't mean my marriage life hasn't had it's tests and been pushed to the limit. I constantly have to practice what I preach, because I never give advice to my clients I myself wouldn't take into practice.

Me and my husband met each other back in 1996 and we finally tied the knot in 2001. When we first began our journey as lifetime partners there was little to no stress, few arguments, and rarely a time we even disagreed. As most marriages do, our marriage started off on a good foot.

However, as time goes on you start to disagree more which leads to more arguments, and more arguments leads to more stress. I can honestly tell you that I have been through all the emotions and stress that comes along with married life, but don't get me wrong I love my husband with all my heart and wouldn't trade in all the obstacles we had to hurdle in our relationship for anything. You see obstacles in any relationship (especially marriage) is good, because it allows your love for each other to grow and as your love continues to grow the foundation of your bond will become stronger.



In My Opinion

There are many anti-divorce books that can help you to save marriage from divorce. In my opinion some of these books are filled with nothing but pure jargon. There are very few of them with real solid and helpful tips, techniques, or methods you can easily follow and introduce into your marriage life.


Recently (after continually being asked to do so for a while now) I purchased 15 of the most popular anti-divorce, relationship advice books to see which ones were worth taking home and which ones were full of rubbish.


This Is What Happened

It was no surprise to me that most of these books were rubbish, filled with no solid information that could truly help save marriage from divorce. In fact, only 2 out of the 15 contained solid information that could provide marriages with the hope of being saved from divorce. I was surprised with the content in both of these books and I feel that either of these books can rescue a troubled marriage.

Take a close look at both and then make sure you read my conclusion at the end.


MagicOfMakingUp.com



Lets start with the new and very helpful "MagicOfMakingup" which shows you how to stop break ups, and prevent divorces, even if the situation seems hopeless.

When I first checked out the site I knew this was a genuine site really trying to help people in these tough situations. The proof provided on the site displays that the author of this book really knows what he's talking about.

I quickly realized why I was hearing so many good things about the magic of making up.

In the book you are greeted with techniques and methods that will help you reconnect with your lover, learn the symptoms that cause an unhealthy relationship, common mistakes people make in their relationship, and learn the clean slate method that will teach you how to start over fresh and new.

There is a lot more valuable information included in this book. Unfortunately I don't have the time to outline them all here. The bottom line is this is a great book offering a ton of valuable information on how to save and rebuild a marriage.

Even though I didn't agree with some of the methods demonstrated in this book (in fact, there were more than a few I disagreed with) I still managed to find this book very useful to a marriage, mine included.


Another thing I wanted to mention about the magic of making up is it's money back guaranteed. The author is so confident with the material in his book that he guarantees if you and your partner aren't happy, or if you haven't saved your marriage from divorce in 60 days then you get your money back. That is a wonderful guaranteed, because it's either you save marriage from divorce or get your money back.

This is a great book you can turn to for some useful information that can help you save your marriage. It shows you step by step what to do and why your doing it.


Overall "the Magic of Making Up" is a great book. The best out of the 15 anti-divorce books I read and I highly recommend it.


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SaveMyMarriageToday.com

When I first saw the Save My Marriage Today website, I thought I was in for another so called marriage expert promising unrealistic results. "I mean, how can you save a marriage in one day" I thought to myself. Usually I would have overlooked books like this, but since my purpose was to find the top anti-divorce books I just went ahead and ordered it.

I was pleasantly surprised by this 6 part mini course. The website states "Discover proven methods to getting your marriage back on track even if you are struggling to communicate with your spouse and are the only one who wants to work on it", and that is exactly what this course does. The techniques are valid and the ideas do work and I only know this because I have been using them in my profession to help married couples for years.


The information provided in this 6 part mini course is abundant with valuable information and methods. Methods including what to do when love is lost, how to keep from growing apart, how to communicate better, how to stop cheating dead in its tracks, how to get your spouse to change their attitude, how to get your spouse to fall back in love with you, and much more.


If you follow the methods and techniques outlined in save my marriage today you will begin to mend your marriage back together. There is no doubt about that, but regardless what they say on their website, I can guaranteed you won't accomplish this in one day.

Still, the save my marriage today methods are very useful to a marriage and the author of this 6 part mini course definitely knows what she is talking about.

However, some of the things she promises aren't always a guaranteed for every situation and the 6 part mini course is a bit too lengthy in my opinion.


All in all, the Save My Marriage Today methods do work, but I advise you to finish reading my conclusion below before taking any action.



THE CONCLUSION

After reviewing both books my conclusion is this. If you want to save your marriage from divorce your best bet is to pick up a copy of the Magic of Making Up.


Please don't get me wrong, the Save My Marriage From Divorce is great also and the methods discussed in it's 6 part mini course do work, but the Magic of Making Up is a bit more straightforward.


So that's it, If you truly want to be the one to save your marriage from divorce then go ahead and......

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3 Mistakes 75% Of Marriages Make


  1. LACK OF COMMUNICATION: communication is by far the most important component in a marriage. So it's surprising to find out that such a high percentage of married couples make this big mistake. 1 out of 3 marriages admit they communicate mainly about bills, the kids, and rarely about their relationship.
  2. TOO MUCH PRIDE: Pride is a good thing to have when your at work or involved in anything competitive. However, marriage is not a competition it's a partnership and both partners have to feel like their on the same level. When you reach your home leave your pride at the door. It will save you a lot of arguing and headaches, trust me.
  3. PETTY ARGUMENTS: Petty arguments are exactly that, petty. Irrelevant, small, meaningless and silly. Yet a very high percentage of marriages are destroyed because of these types of arguments. Constantly arguing about things that are petty will not hurt your relationship overnight, but slowly and surely it will.